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I am a very experienced & nationally known BDSM player / kink educator who has been exploring these delightfully erotic realms for well over a decade. I am passionate & serious about my own education & over the years I have sought out, trained with or attended classes or workshops by many of the most highly skilled players in their fields. As a result, I am very good at what I do skills wise. As for my personal play style, to be honest, I am not a huge fan of specialized role play or strict structure & protocol in my sessions. What truly juices me is taking someone to their edge, dancing with them there, drawing them in deeper & then perhaps seducing or challenging them to hang on just a little further than they thought they could go. I enjoy eye contact, connected breathing, & close physical contact with people that are as turned on by the play as I am. My favorite scenes are always ones that include a spiritual connection & deep sense of shared erotic energy. Although I will not harm you, I will certainly enjoy sensually or sadistically teasing & tormenting your body for our mutual pleasure. I absolutely adore willing masochists who offer the gift of suffering for my pleasure. BDSM SPECIALTY AREAS: I am very highly skilled & enjoy many areas of the BDSM arts such as: Rope Bondage in all its forms: restrictive, artistic, torturous & suspension Percussion, Impact & Pressure point play (especially single tails, canes, floggers and "thug" play) Kinky Medical Fetish Scenes (ask me about my Nurse Nasty site) Extreme Tease & Denial Sessions Cock, Ball & Nipple Torture Breath & Blood Flow Games Wax, Fire & Electrical Play Foot & Boot Fetish Worship BDSM & KINK EDUCATION I am honoured to have presented for numerous national events, conferences & local groups as well as lecturing at a prestigious NY college. I also very much enjoy teaching & working with individuals or couples who wish to learn more about how to explore this lovestyle safely. My main website includes more information on my current list of classes, a resume of past presentations & my upcoming teaching schedule. SACRED INTIMATE WORK: I also have a strong interest in sensual & therapeutic massage, sacred sexual healing & energy work. I am a Body Electric School trained Sacred Intimate, professionally trained massage therapist & a student of Tantra & Taoist Erotic Massage. "Sacred Intimate" sessions are most fulfilling for me when erotic healing is the key intention & there is a worthy purpose to base the work on, so not all who apply for this work will "get it". However, polite inquiries will always receive more information. LIFE COACHING: I am also a professionally trained "kink friendly" life coach & I absolutely love helping people to achieve more fulfillment & joy in their lives. Far too many of us have been discouraged to follow our dreams or taught to believe that we do not actually deserve to be as happy as we can be in all areas of our lives (sex included). I like to work with people to get “unstuck”, go after what they truly want, communicate better with those around them, and basically live happier more rewarding lives. For more info on my coaching work please see my SMCoaching site below. HOURS & LOCATIONS: I currently reside in NY's Hudson Valley, where my own facilities include four dedicated playrooms: The Temple, Medieval Dungeon, Medical facilities & my Victorian Dressing Room. I much prefer to play in my own space & this is where I can be found most often. Trust me, it is worth the trip to see me at home. I have access to a fabulous space in mid town Manhattan & will play there by advance appointment either privately or for doubles with another very talented, highly skilled and beautiful Domina. I also visit family on Long Island & travel a far bit to some other major cities while teaching: (Chicago, Atlanta, DC, & Denver are scheduled for 2008 so far). Some of these travels & events allow me the time to do some session work while away & some do not. However, any session booked with me in a location other than home will require you to send an advance deposit to confirm. I generally do sessions Mon, Wed, Thurs & Fri between 10 and 6p. Some evenings can be arranged but I they are far trickier to schedule due to other commitments that I have to work around. Tuesdays are reserved for coaching clients. Weekends are often booked way in advance with events I travel to & classes that I teach. MORE DETAILS – PLEASE READ!!! My preferred method of contact is via email. If you call during calling hours and I do not pick up, it generally means I am in session. Please leave a message or try again at another time however please be advised that I do NOT do free phone interviews, sorry. My preference is always for Live In-person sessions but I also offer telephone, email & webcam sessions or trainings. My tribute for live sessions starts at $250 an hour & I prefer a 2 hour minimum. Longer sessions and overnights can be negotiated & arranged. All new client appointments must be made a few days in advance, no exceptions. In order to book a session with me you must complete a fairly extensive pre scene negotiation form on my website, so access to a computer & an email address is absolutely required!! FINAL NOTE: I should also mention that I routinely turn away a large percentage of the people that fill out my form due to incompatibility issues. To be frank, I have gotten to the point in my career that I can quite afford to be choosy about who I will see & when as well as what sort of sessions I will do. Although I never forget that as a professional dominant I am essentially a service provider, I also know that scenes work best for both people when everyone's needs are being met. I figured out a long time ago that if I am not truly enjoying the scene, it will absolutely show & most of my favorite clients remark to me that they LOVE how much I LOVE what I do. To this end, I will often prefer to pass on a session if I feel you are looking for something other than what I truly enjoy doing or that you are overly focused on details like specific roles, fantasies, or fetishes that try to dictate what I wear, what I say or require me to “act” a certain way. (I don't enjoy bitchy, stern roles or heavy humiliation etc) I want us BOTH to have an amazingly erotic journey that will leave us feeling spiritually connected, joyously fulfilled, deliciously tender & excitedly anticipating our next encounter. I look forward to taking the first step on that journey with you soon. 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